When debugging with Visual Studio 2010, you may find that you can’t attach to the
aspnet_wp.exe process as its greyed out.
One solution is to look at the Debug Diagnostic Services, it may be automatically starting and creating new instances of DbgHost.exe – leading VS to think a debugger was already attached.
Disabling this service should fix the problem of
aspnet_wp.exe being greyed out.
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